So you're online trying to find advice on the where-to's and how-to's to find the right partner. Everyone suggests parks, local supermarkets, libraries or museums. But seriously....do you know anyone that says they met someone at their local library? Or your local supermarket turned into a hot meat market (haha... no pun intended). Yes, of course, on T.V...but if T.V was reality, we'd all be perfect. That's probably the reason why (some)reality shows are the IT show to watch right now. This is modern day people!
Fact 1: You can meet him or her ANYWHERE....
You don't need to enroll in a course or join a church solely on finding him...or her. The best place to meet someone is when you are least expecting it....it's probably going to be a completely lazy and tired day when you have no make-up on, a 2 day old beard (guys that is) and its a sweat pants Sunday. It's funny but I've heard of family and friends being asked out on dates in the craziest places...just to name a few:
1) At a traffic light ~ red light of course
2) My dear sister on a date and being asked by one of HIS friends
3) On the freeway ~ not stopped and as they were driving...Who would of thunk it?
And an even better question...How is that even possible??
4) Parking lots
5) Pumping gas
Wouldn't these examples be the last places one could think of meeting someone? Just goes to show it could happen anywhere to anyone when they aren't expecting it.
Fact 2: Be Yourself...For Real
I know a lot of people that act fake or act just plain different when they are trying to impress someone but in reality, they just look like fools. You would be more appealing to the opposite gender if you're more relaxed and low maintenance. Who you are IS who you are, whether you're skinny, fat, grouchy in the morning or by having a short temper.
Everyone has their faults, or a dark side, or traits that aren't desirable. If people didn't have their "dark side" then we wouldn't be human. Everyone has good traits and bad ones....that is what makes the entirety of one....the whole package. J.M
You will find the love when you aren't looking for it...at all....don't worry. If you are single and wondering, I like to think that everyone is where they are in life because the events in their lives brought them to where they are at that particular moment. Maybe you just haven't reached that road just yet. And when you do, don't second guess yourself. You will probably be torn by your mind and your heart, wondering if you should take that crazy leap or that responsible step.
Remember this: you will be completely absorbed in your life, with your interests, your friends, your hobbies, your career and your life plan. You know what's next in your life and you're straight. You're happy and you picture your life becoming balanced because in the back of your mind you think that if he/she was here to share it with you, it would be perfect...but it doesn't really matter because everything is going as it should. Then WHAM!!! the unexpected happens...but that's a whole different post altogether.
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